Everyone and his uncle with even itsy-bitsy knowledge of internet are on social networking sites. From celebrity imposters to real politicians and everyone in between are logging on to the sites like Facebook, Orkut and MySpace. No wonder, Orkut profiles are dissected as a part of postmortem of murder cases and even a serial killer on the prowl is known as ‘Facebook fugitive’.
If that was not enough, a robber was caught because he logged into his Facebook id from the house he robbed and forgot to log out! We are aware of the hazards these sites can be, but we are ready to take the risks because freedom to be expressive and bonding online with friends at a distance has become possible through them. And at the end of the day, it’s fun.
I DON’T WANT TO BE SEEN ON ORKUT ANYMORE
Picking up on online social networking wasn’t all that difficult when it had just started off. Youngsters in India just lapped it all up. “I had opened an account on Orkut in 2005 and later I joined Facebook. I also ended up signing for Hi5 and Bigadda because my friends sent me invites. After a while I stopped signing up for every social networking site that came my way.
As most of my old classmates and friends were on Orkut, I stayed there for a long time,” says Amrita Mehta, an IT content writer in Pune who has just deleted her Orkut profile. “It was very exciting in the beginning as I kept finding or getting a friendship request from people I had lost contact with. I used to be desperate about checking scraps from my friends in the US at midnight while I was still a student. Now these sites are banned at my workplace. And every time I’m surfing from home, I look for quality time on social networking. Orkut seems over crowded and cluttered now. I realised I was even getting stalked there. I had enough reasons to move out of there as many of my good friends have migrated to Facebook as well.”
‘Cluttered’, ‘boring’ and ‘overcrowded’ are words that even those still on Orkut don’t mind using. “What’s the point of this place when everyone is there. Some relatives and classmates that I never wish to meet again in life surface from nowhere and keep poking me virtually if I ignore them. I can’t even delete them out of my network. And at the same time I am happy that I have found some really old pals that I had lost touch with.
“But apart from being on the same virtual network there is nothing in common with some 400 friends that I studied or worked with or related to,” says Vijay Pathak, a banking professional. He has requested a change of name because he still doesn’t want to lose some of the friends. However, he too has gradually started moving his base to Facebook, where he thinks he gets more privacy settings and control in his hands to include or delete from his network.
After competing with colleagues or classmates about who has more number of scraps, friends or testimonials, Amrita says she has learnt her lesson, “Orkut or for that matter other networking sites as well give you this false image of having hundreds of friends – some of them even have thousands – when in reality you have just a handful of people you can actually rely on and share your experiences with.
“Ironically, these places cannot be banked upon for meeting real people for dating.” As more youngsters have a series of awkward experiences of meeting new people through the website, it won’t be surprising if there comes up a need for special counsellors for online social networking troubles.
IMAGE KA SAWAL HAI!
You cannot escape having an online presence at a time like this. But who are your friends and what you do for a living being pasted on your wall, scrapbook or status messages in an open forum, can get you a job and get you fired as well.
“I often end up discussing with my gal pals about how if we are on Orkut, we end up dealing with unwanted ‘franship’ requests from weirdoes. And if I enable the privacy setting, even my real friends cannot get through to me. Some of my work associates wondered how could I still be just on Orkut, and I never realised that a majority of my decent friends were spending more time on other options. I found Facebook a little difficult to navigate initially.
But, gradually I realised it was more sophisticated in terms of presence of people, interaction, applications, games and more,” says Sonal Shah, a HR consultant.
Orkut has run into trouble with users because of the way it advertises as well. As a part of the Google family, it makes use of the user’s personal data to flash them advertisements. Users end up with amateur advertisements about tuition classes to gyms in their areas. In an effort to bring in common elements, Orkut has ended up with more clutter. Though Orkut still enjoys being on top of the number game with more than 15 million users in India, Facebook’s popularity has just resulted in doubling up numbers in the past one year.
It is time Orkut reinvented itself or it may be categorised as the social network of the Third World countries or perish on the path of Geocities in the coming days.
With 300 million users worldwide,Facebook has already started making money. This also means if more people get on board with Facebook with the same enthusiasm, it is likely to be equally overcrowded for Indian users soon.
IS YOUR DATA SAFE ONLINE?
This is a question often asked and almost all major networking sites are facing various kinds of law-suits because of privacy and security issues. Even the American President is aware of that. Barack Obama warned youngsters in one of his speeches to be careful about what they put on these social networking websites. It is tough for parents to keep track of what their teenagers are doing online.
“My teenage daughter Mitwa is in high school and already on Orkut. I couldn’t monitor it properly and there are a lot of nuisances where I cannot sit and see everything she does on the website. My friends suggested both of us should move to Facebook and we can interact and still give each other privacy. I even found some alumni members from MS University there. Our entire real social circle is now there along with her friends, so I feel much safer if she interacts or plays games with her friends on Facebook,” says artist Mahendra Mistry.
For people of all ages, keeping limited data on such websites makes more sense to avoid any fear of personal details being misused.
FACE OF INTERFACE
Along with smooth navigation through a site, the look is important too. As architect Darpana Athale puts it, “Design is the most crucial aspect to a website, apart from content. In fact, design helps bring the content to the audience in a better, systematic and aesthetic way. Good design also helps attract the audience to the site and keep them engaged.” She feels, Orkut’s design could be made more simple. She elaborates, “One of the keys to these websites is their clarity in terms of design and functionality. Graphic elements or logos like the bird in Twitter helps connect with all users on every platform.
Similarly icons used in Facebook are unique to the site, but more importantly are easy to read and decipher, making them effective. Colours and graphic elements add to the ‘brand value’, but they need to be used sparingly so that the clutter is minimised and readability and functionality is better achieved.
DESI VERSIONS OF SOCIAL NETWORKING
Though both Orkut and Facebook are highly popular in India, there are some desi online social networking sites that have tried to make space for themselves in the market. Their features and interface are mainly a local version of Orkut. Some of them are really attractive on the designing part. Out of them Bigadda.com is a widely known name, more so because Amitabh Bachchan and some other celebrities blog there. Bharatstudent.com has higher ratings than Bigadda but it’s more popular in the student domain. Fropper.com and Yaari.com have their small fan bases too. However, ad revenues are generally their only means of survival and Indian social networking sites have very little appeal among the NRI crowd which is already hooked to the popular international ones.
CONCEPT BASED SOCIAL NETWORKING PORTALS
Linkedin.com: A business or professional networking site for professionals to interact online, but not a job search portal.
Ryze.com: More casual business networking site, focused on entrepreneurs.
Goodreads.com: Network to interact with likeminded readers
Theleakycauldron.org: Quirky social network of Harry Potter fans
Justmeans.com: Asocial-professional network focused on environment issues
Cafemom.com: A social network of moms
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